Completely Revised 20th Anniversary Edition


Finding a Man Worth Keeping


Become a Woman Worth Finding, Choose the Right Man,
and Build a Love That Lasts


Dating has changed. The importance of choosing wisely hasn’t.
This completely updated Christian relationship guide will help
you recognize character, spot red flags, create healthy boundaries,
and make wiser choices about the men you date.


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Victorya Rogers holding Finding a Man Worth Keeping


Being chosen isn’t the ultimate goal.
Choosing wisely is.


Read It. Then Live It.


The Book + The Bible Study

Start with Finding a Man Worth Keeping, then go deeper with the
11-week small-group Bible study companion guide.

Finding a Man Worth Keeping


The Book


Finding a Man Worth Keeping


Ten practical secrets for becoming a woman worth finding,
recognizing a man worth keeping, and choosing wisely.


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Finding a Man Worth Keeping Bible Study


The Bible Study


11-Week Small Group Companion Guide


Scripture, reflection, journaling, prayer, and honest
conversation to help you put the book into practice.


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Relationships • Faith • Wisdom


What if finding the right man isn’t just about being chosen—but
about learning how to choose wisely?

Finding a Man Worth Keeping is the completely updated
and revised 20th Anniversary Edition of Victorya Rogers’
bestselling Christian relationship guide, now expanded with more
than 12,000 new words for today’s dating world.


About the Book


Love doesn’t require you to abandon wisdom.

Whether you’re dating for the first time, tired of relationships
that go nowhere, starting over after divorce, or wondering how to
recognize a genuinely good man, this practical, conversational guide
will help you date with greater clarity, confidence, and wisdom.

Drawing from more than fifteen years of dating, nearly thirty years
of marriage, decades of relationship coaching, and biblical principles,
Victorya Rogers shares ten practical secrets for becoming a woman worth
finding—and recognizing a man worth keeping.


This isn’t about figuring out how to make a man fall in love with you.
It’s about becoming healthy and confident in who you are—and learning
to choose well.

This isn’t about playing games, following a formula, or figuring out
how to make a man fall in love with you. It’s about becoming healthy
and confident in who you are, learning from your mistakes, trusting God
with your future, and making wise choices about the men you date.

Written especially for Christian single women and women dating after
divorce, Finding a Man Worth Keeping combines real-world dating
advice, honest encouragement, practical coaching, and faith in a way
that feels like talking with a trusted friend who’s been there.


Inside You’ll Discover


Practical wisdom for dating with clarity, confidence, and faith

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Become a woman worth finding without pretending to be someone you’re not.

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Recognize character instead of being blinded by chemistry.

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Set healthy emotional, physical, and spiritual boundaries.

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Know when a relationship is moving toward commitment—and when it’s time to walk away.

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Choose the right man and build a love that lasts.

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Get clear about what you really want in a husband.

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Spot relationship red flags before they become lifelong regrets.

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Navigate online dating, texting, social media, and situationships.

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Include God in your dating life without waiting for Him to do all the work.

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Learn from the past without allowing past mistakes to define your future.


Reality Is Your Friend


Being chosen isn’t the ultimate goal.

You don’t need to settle because you’re lonely, panic because you’re
getting older, or rush because everyone else seems to have found someone.
God can be trusted with your future—and wisdom still matters when it comes
to whom you choose to love.



It’s always better to wait for the right man than to rush
into marriage with the wrong one.


Go Deeper Together


The Finding a Man Worth Keeping Bible Study


Reading the book is the first step.
Living it out is the harder—and better—part.


The official 11-week small-group companion guide helps you move from
simply reading the ten Secrets to applying them through Scripture,
reflection, journaling, prayer, and honest conversation.


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Become a Woman Worth Finding. Choose Wisely.


Read the book on your own, or invite a few women to join you
and work through the companion Bible study together.


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